Aw, how I miss my readers! (even though I think my readers are not so much, but thankya to the people who reads my blog :) ♥) Sorry for not posting in idk how many weeks, but I'll try to make it up to you guys. So today I'm in Bandung, a city they like to call "The City Of Flowers". It's prolly just 2 hours away from my dearest city, Jakarta. But that's not the point of this post. The point is I'm here because on Saturday, my Best-friend-ever-that-I-treat-as-my-sister's DAD is getting married! I'm super duper extraaspiallidocious (wtv idk how to spell it) for him :D I've always loved weddings.
To me it's one of the most important and amazing moment in life where you and the one you love will be bounded in a more serious relationship after engagement or bf & gf relationship. When you get married, that means you're going to build a family of your own. Once you do have a family, one tip: never let the marriage slip away. I know I sound like ms-i-know-everything just because I'm still young and I never got married before, but I just know. When you get married, that means you're going to spend the rest of your life with the person you love (that's why if you wanna get married. You better marry the ONE you reaaaally love. Try not to make a mistake) and spending the rest of your life with the one you love can be tough. You know, sometimes you can get caught up with work, kids, or even your partner you get stressed out. Or maybe one day you can get bored of your partner. Now that is the first thing you need to avoid when you're in a marriage. Never get bored with ur partner. For the guys, try to give your wife surprises or long walks or even go to the movies even though you think you guys are too old to do that but actually, you're never to old to do something except like jumping up and down on the big rubber castle kids plays in. You guys could do the things you used to do when you we're still bf & gfs. Remembering the old times are always sweet like maybe the guy gives the girl a piggy back ride while running on the beach bare foot like they used to do in highschool, or maybe watch horror movies, or maybe even dress fancy in the house just to slow dance on the patio with the same music like when you two had your first dance. That'll keep the marriage tight.
People says "My love for you is like seasons" but actually the right thing to say is "My love for you is not like seasons. It never changes." That's another tip. I know one day your love for each other would change, but don't let it happen. If it changes, your marriage could change too. Your love for each other has to always be strong. If you could, make the marriage last for ever cause that's the beauty of marriages. You get married, you get a house, you get a family, and you live happily ever after until you and your husband or wife have white hairs and crippled skin. I actually love seeing two old people be so happy in their marriage even though idk what they went through. I think it's very sweet to see two people get married until they're old. Don't you?
Back to the point. To me, the happiest marriage is the marriage with the one you love most. The one you love most after you mom and dad. The happiest marriage could only happen ONE time. That's why I want my first wedding the happiest wedding ever when I grow up. It doesn't have to be perfect, but the thing makes it complete and perfect is your love you're sharing with your bride or groom and your beloved family. Have fun with your marriage! ;)
