Broken Home Wise Girl

I wanna tell you about my friend (i'm not gonna say names) that told me that she's really sad about her mom getting married again and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I really care about her cause she's a close friend of mine :) I said to her that if her mom gets married again maybe she won't feel lonely again and she'll be happier. We need to think about our mom's feelings too. They gave the best for us since we we're born and now it's our turn to think about what makes her happy and just do the best for them. Just observe the guy your mom is falling in love in, does he really love your mom for who she is? not just because of beauty or money, does he really makes her happy and makes her laugh freely? and of course don't forget is the lucky guy is nice to you? If the answer is yes to all of it, all we could do is let them marry each other cause the important thing is our mom will be happy. I told her that she also needs to talk with her mom and maybe share about things and have a mom and daughter bonding time. She then said that she felt like it was a game and she failed playing it. She doesn't know what she's done, she doesn't know what's her fault, and she doesn't know did she did wrong. She just felt something made her down and upset with no reason. I said that

"life is a game. Sometimes u have to win but sometimes u have to lose. It's like a turning wheel like what everybody says. Sometimes our up and sometimes our down. When you're down, you just need to suck up all the sadness and anger, then get back up. Cause when you fall down, the thing you need to remember is the people you love and the people that loves you. I bet there's a reason why your boyfie wanted to break up, maybe he feels that he's not the right guy for you. If he comes back to you, maybe he was always yours. But if he doesn't, then there's fajilion other guys in the world out there waiting for you to come. Turn that frown upside down and look at the bright side, there are people that still loves you. Maybe your boyfie just wants you to be happy and don't ever say something is useless cause sometimes the things you think is useless it may be the best thing that's ever happened to you. You and him need to thank each other for the memories you guys built together. Don't let the past haunt you, you need to keep moving forward. Just like what Dori in 'Finding Nemo' says, just keep swimming ;)"

After i said that to her, she said i'm a wise girl ;D she said i think maturely for something. When she tells somebody to share, they just stayed quiet and they don't give her something that makes her calm. She thanked me and she said that i'll be the best girl she's ever known (': She's maybe the first person that's ever said that to me ♥ :'D That's why i posted this post. I hope you readers out there would know what i'm trying to say here in this post and i just want you all to know what ever the problem that you are facing right now is, no matter how hard it is, just keep on moving cause that's all we could do. Forget the past and look up to the future. Also, thank you to the person i'm talking about in this post, love ya shawty! ♥

xoxo