Hello there we meet again! So today, the so-called-slumber party with Risya was over :( I went to Thamrin City at first with my mom and lil bro, then I went to Grand Indonesia, and now i'm at Agel's office waiting for my mom that's in a meeting. So i decided to write a blog cause that's how much I love my readers! Oh yeah i said it out loud ;) But actually, that's not what I wanted to talk about today in this post. I wanted to talk about family.
To me, family are the people who doesn't have to be related with us but the people who we share that special feeling called love. The people who we care about. They are the people who we share everything to, the people who we trust, the people who we could act crazy in front of them without feeling embarrassed. They are the ones who makes you ☺ rather than ☹. You could consider your Best Friends and your Gf or Bfs family. Like me and Risya! We consider each other as sisters and sisters are tight :-)
The thing about family is that they stick with each other and each one of them has each other's back. Like what lilo and stitch says, "Ohana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind". That quote actually explains it. It explains that nobody gets left behind even though it's a tough decision. Nobody in that family should even feel 'left behind'. They should love everybody equally and they should love each one of them to bits. Well, that's the point of having a family. A family never breaks apart because of just one small mistake. Family should forgive one another. So for you guys who's having a family problem right now, I just wanna give you guys a short message: "Never cut that line of love between you and the people you care. Don't even try to forget that person or those people cause forgetting is like trying to remember a person you haven't met. It's hard. Even though when you succeeded at forgetting that person, you'll feel loss. You will someday regret it cause the feeling that you shared together was special. Maybe you think it's not special at all but unconsciously, it is. Even though if that problem is really super small."
Well, let's make it simple. For example: You and that person or you and those people has made this brick of wall and lets say that each brick is 'love and memories'. Perhaps you and those special people have made a wall with 100 bricks. The bricks we're flawless when suddenly one day, there's this 'bad brick'. That 'bad brick' is a mistake leading to a problem. So you and those people suddenly maybe had a fight then BAM! that line you call love was cut. But the thing is, you guys only see that 1 small 'bad brick' and not seeing the other 99 flawless bricks you guys have made together.
You get what I'm trying to say here? (I learned it from a book written by a bigsu! Oh yeah I'm cool like that ;p This book is actually reaaaaally fantastic. It gives you valuable lessons in life and advices too. When you read a page, it makes you suddenly read the next page and the next page and so on.) So the point is, Ohana or family is really important. It actually comes second after yourself.
Oh yeah, i wanted to share about something. So there's this girl that I really care about even though we aren't technically related. Me and that girl was really close before. We used to share everything, we used to laugh about silly stuff, we used the share our secrets. She used to be the first one i come to when i have any problem. But now, we weren't that close anymore. It's actually my fault. I did something wrong and i realized it was wrong. I didn't think before i act. I actually think that i could pretend that this thing never happened, but i can't. I actually miss her and the moments we shared as sisters. She used to be the best sister ever to me. She used to be my role-model after my mom. I actually miss her. And now, i'm sleeping over at my mom's place at my mom's room and she's just downstairs and i just feel awkward. So actually i don't know what to do. It seems like i give great advices to people but i can't seem to take my own advice. Yeah, that's all i guess so if you're seeing this the person who i'm talking about here, i hope you understand and i'm truly very very sorry about everything. I know i was stupid and wrong. I just want things to be back like it was used to be ♥
Okay people, so I hope this post helps you and xoxos! love you, stay tuned for more ☺
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